It is normal for human to do things that can make other people to be impress, it’s just we are doing it in different ways.” Haha, I think the girl writing that is a sl*t or tramp. Do you agree or not? I’m a straight female by the way- so don’t call me a chauvanist. I hate girls who wear revealing clothes and then complain they’re sexually harrassed. They asked for it.
A woman can still look good/attractive without looking like a sl*t, a tramp, or too sexy. She can wear a skirt below the knees and a blouse that isn’t low-cut. The skirt and shirt doesn’t have to be big- but it shouldn’t be too tight either. It can fit her well without being too tight or sl*tty. I don’t know why many women feel the need to dress like sl*ts (showing cleavage and short skirts) and tempt all men around them- some of these men might be married!
Here’s the link where I found the message the girl wrote: http://malaysia.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AjVp8hfLPjGWWXJpjo.vpOa5QAx.;_ylv=3?qid=20081206035013AAp1fcN&show=7#profile-info-AA11441260
why question is- why do women complain they are sexually harrassed or raped when they dress like sl*ts?
both my mom and my therapist tell me not to wear low-cut blouses. I’m 20 years old (I’m an adult)
Joe: Your money is supposed to be hidden inside that wallet. And your wallet is supposed to be kept hidden inside your pants or pocket too. Your logic doesn’t make sense.
Joe: Your wallet and money is supposed to be hidden inside your pants or pocket. Just like a woman isn’t supposed to display her cleavage.
both my mom and my therapist tell me not to show my cleavage. I’m 20 years old (I’m an adult)
I’m not overweight- so don’t insult me. I’m slender and graceful.
I’m not overweight- so don’t insult me. I’m slender, graceful, and feminine.
I’m from the US (I came to the Philippines for college) Although I am slim- guys in the US still called me ugly. Maybe it was because of my face. (I’m a mestiza but not a great beauty)
My face is average
Answer by Leah- darkchild
why do girls complain??? UMMMM- WHY DO MEN THINK WITH THERE DI*KS
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I think that they just want to have money that’s why they consider their selves as rape victims. But I guess others are still virgins that’s why it’s still rape but after many times I’m sure they will like it.
what the fuck? shut up moaning. people can wear what they want. i doubt very much that you haven’t wore a short skirt before.
plus why would anyone want to be raped?
why would anyone want to feel vialated ?
The “slutty women” who wear these short skirts and low cut tops would probably find a one night stand, not get someone to rape them.
it’s not just the women who show alot of flesh who get raped.
Every person has the right to dress how they choose. When you start removing those freedoms, you regress into a societal state which is not very pleasant for anyone. Its intolerance like that which you display that is wrong with the world, you’re a moron.
Said it before, and I’ll say it again, it’s time to trim the herd people. People like this should be the first to go.
Because they can wear what they like, doesn’t mean they deserve to be raped though!
Following your logic, if someone steals my wallet from my pocket it would be my own fault because I have money in there and it’s tempting to them to steal it? Would that qualify as “asking for it”?
You don’t know what your talking about.
i would LOVE to be born a girl in my next birth!! they get all the soft and sweet things; do what they please; make love to other girls as well as all the men who please them; and then cry out that they are oppressed, depressed, suppressed and so on;;;; and the whole world listens to them, and load more privileges and pleasures on them. now, being born a girl combines the most of temptation with the most of opportunity and a lot of impunity. so, HURRAY FOR WOMEN
‘one of them seduced and stole my boyfriend.’
Seems someone is a tad bitter. Just because you’re alone doesnt mean every woman with a boyfriend is a slut. Or anyone who shows some skin is a slut.
I hope one day you get raped and then maybe you wouldnt be so quick to wish it upon others.
your line of thinking is similar to this………. please read carefully
http://www.theaustralian.news.com.au/story/0,20867,20646437-601,00.html
personally that line of thinking is century old and in todays time and age where many people are educated, liberated/free and discipline there’s no place of this kind of thinking in democratic and civilise nations.
you need to broaden your thinking and widen your understanding of other people’s right above all respect others.
for starters you need to understand what respect means.
g’day
I usually do not get involved when women fight, after learning a hard lesson, ha ha ha. But before I go, just a word of thought. When I shop with women, the least amount of clothing the better it is for the wallet. And the more for my imagination. Whatever you wear, it is your business and I will forever respect you. Men, time to enjoy your cold beer in the fridge. and get the fringe benefits of watching in the sidelines.
hey girl you’re so MEAN,,, not all girls that wear like what youve said are SL*T. C’mon rape victims are victims why dont blame the rapist.. hey wake up this is a democratic country maybe you can migrate in mid east.. Maybe you are just over reacting because your BF was seduced and stoled by a SL*T, maybe your BF just dont like you… be mature, grow up!!!
why question is- why do women complain they are sexually harrassed or raped when they dress like sl*ts?
- simply because they were harassed or raped… so the conservative rape victims/ harassed sexually have the right to complain..
I know what you mean. You have a point.
I think it’s because these girls enjoy the attention they get when they dress sexy. Attention from men in particular. Their sense of self esteem is heavily hinged upon physical looks. A pity, I know. To be honest, I want to be appreciated for my looks just as much as the other woman. Buuut, the difference is I don’t want to get this attention by showing too much skin. That’s just too easy and cheap. A beautiful woman that looks attractive in not overtly sexy clothes is a true beauty (in a physical sense). Any woman can look sexy by simply wearing the least clothing possible. But not everyone can look beautiful.
Here’s what a guy said about why he likes simple women. it’s because they’re comfortable enough in their own skin and with their inner beauty that they don’t feel the need to dress sexy.
It’s a mixture of human nature, advertising gurus and the way society has headed. It’s true, I will look at a woman who has a short skirt on or a low cut cleaverage. It’s natural – male hormones. I hang my head in shame. Yes the woman will dress up provocatively. She does want the attention. But she does have a problem herself, whether it be low self esteeme or just a tramp looking for attention. Some women are concerned that they are “boring” and will do anything to not be boring. Others are just so niave and feel that if their friends dress up like they do, so they must do themselves.
Religious colleges/schools. Yes they should set an example and ban such clothing, but they don’t. It’s usually money related why they wont ban the student from wearing trashy clothing. The student may have wealthy parents, parents may want to sue the school for money (upset by being told what to do) or take their child elsewhere. It’s not good publicity for the school.
Women getting sexually assaulted. That’s a tricky one. There have been a fair few reported cases in the media in the country where I live with trashy clothing women supposedly getting raped. What woman who wears no under wear and a short skirt goes out to a seedy night club and gets sexually assaulted is only asking for trouble. I do agree with you there. But what about those niave ones who dress up trashy because their friends do and then they get raped?
Rest assured, at the end of the day, I rather meet a nerdy girl who dresses up and covers most of her body, as I know I will have least problems with her. A trashy dressed woman is just asking for trouble.
Nice ranting. :<(
I suggest you should see a therapist for self help confidence and a fashion designer to project a good image to the public.
Are you deprived with male admirers by any chance? or was the man you were eyeing has been taken away under your nose?
You’re a person full of negativism, judgmental and most of all your character is as ugly as you.
Showing cleavage isn’t the only factor one could acquire many friends and admirers. It’s the character that speaks to it. Be charming instead of a whiney. Be funny instead of a snob and a hypocrite.
On the contrary, you must have a flint stone type of legs that’s why you hated women wearing short skirts.
Girl, grow up. Even a girl who wears modest clothes get raped. Have you not read/heard of news in Saudi Arabia, Afghanistan, Egypt, etc. where women are wearing “bhurkas” (these long gowns with a veil covering completely their faces) and they also get raped ? If you cannot bear what you see, I suggest you enter the nunnery and become a mongha. There you will be fully clothed up the head, you are just in a cell and praying for the sins of humanity the whole time. Or, I suggest you see a psychiatrist. You seem to be so hung up on “slutty girls.” How many times will you pose this kind of question ?
Gee whiz, you are 20 and you follow what your mom and therapist say? (Look at the word therapist, it can be spelled THE RAPIST. He has “raped” your brains, that is why you’re thinking this way.)
Anyway, my observation which concerns girls like you, is this: after they had had sex, they become looser and then they also end up dressing like the slutty girl they once abhorred. I had once an officemate who we call the “last virgin” in our company. Then she went to Australia, got a boyfriend, had sex, and now that “manang” loves to go to a NUDIST camp.
Hi, you know I feel mixed emotions here. Yes, its true that women wear revealing dresses or outfits, really catch attentions not only from the opposite sex but also from same sexual category, admittedly, I have a high regard for sexy women, with flawless skin, abounding frontal assets and most specially an attractive face with kissable lips,(hey…its not what you’re thinking…am not a man hiding inside a woman’s body..LOL) how I wish I was one of them. You know in this generation, it is but normal seeing such. Little do you know, whether you like it or not its part of sophistication inclined lives of people nowadays. I sometimes do wear those revealing blouses not because I’m an attention seeker, its just that I want to flatter my figure and its part of shining with confidence even done unintentionally. Apparently, the root cause of your bitterness is not really the women who shows some of their skin, but your boyfriend himself. I empathize your situation but he’s not worth antagonizing these women, he has a depleted loyalty and sincerity.
LALL! (Live And Let Live)
What business is it of yours?
Besides, where would you want a sinner?
In a Church, or in a bar room?
Ban the sinners from church and you will have nobody to worship your “god” or hear the message the church is trying to get across.
wwwwwwwwwwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.Stop you crying, You say you are all of 20yrs old. wow you are an adult. You don’t act like it, You said a slut took your bf. big deal. there are more. if she was a slut and she got him, tough for him, good for u. he was easy. About women wanting to wear slutty clothes, its all personal preference. Supposedly you live in a free Democratic country. right? ok then the people make their own choices, good or bad it is their choice. Don’t talk bad about women wearing bikini at the pool or the beach. It is their choice, how many married women who wear bikinis still have the body to wear them. In the US many women, dabiana are at the beach in bikining Itim. lol. Marami damulag sa tabing dagat. scary to see. Way too much skin. and too much cellulite. Better to see an attractive girl who is confident with her body in a nice bikini. no di ba. Dressing Seksi is alot different than dressing Trashy. Dressing sexy doesn’t make her a slut or make her any more liable to rape. Many times rape is random. Lola Kikii may be just as available to rape as a young girl. Rape is a violent act, a control act.
If you want to have women who dress sexily punished, then you are living in the wrong country. You should move to an Arabic country. But there the woman gets punished for being raped, “she showed off her wrist, and ankles. she deserved it.” then she will be beaten by the court. If a girl secretly has a bf when her parents don’t know or approve, and the father or brother find out, do you know what happens.
The girl is found a few days later, or her body is found, on the desert. and if the boy is lucky he got away, they don’t even need to have done anything, just be seen together. thats enough to bring about an “HONOR MURDER” they embarassed the family, thats enough. That sounds like your kind of place.Oh and here is another thing that those fine muslim countries practice. FEMALE CIRCUMCISION. Do you know what that is, They remove the girls clitoris with a knife, not in a hospital but in a tent. by an old woman from the village. Do you know why they do this procedure. Well here is the reason. their thinking is that, “Well we can’t have our women enjoying sex and intercourse that may lead to them promiscuity and we can’t have any of that, so what we’ll do it get the girls just before they hit puberty and we will just cut off their love button. that way we know they will not be having sex just because it feels good, then it will only be sex for procreation. We can’t have our women messing around and having fun, Its ok for the men, but of course they are men. But not our pure women.” Pretty twisted don’t u think
What is your problem any way, enjoy your life. you are only 20. you have the rest of your life to be miserable. you are well on the way to being a lonely miserable woman if you keep up this way. Most pinay are so nice, friendly and yes, SEXY, compared to White women, you have it made. think of all the money you save not havig to buy stocking except for going out. All that pretty brown skin, all u need are sandals or heels, you don’t need stocking. sorry i got away from the subject.
Any way, take care of your own life, don’t worry about your xbf, hes gone, u let him get away to one of these so called sluts, if you would have been more of a slut yourself maybe you would still have him. If you are just a nagger, hes lucky he got away. Remember this, being a slut is different from being slutty. He will go to the slut in the afternoon and into the nite if the one at home isn’t acting like a slut sometimes at home. shes going to be the one who gets his affection if the one at home is cold and always proper. Even in the Philippines the bedroom can be awfully cold and lonely at nite, especially if you are sleeping alone. and if u keep him under di saya, and outside of the kamut, he will be gone. he will find somewhere else to sleep, warmer, more comfortable, with better company. sorry but thats the way it happens when you treat him poorly. sayang, kawawa ka